Episode 7
EXPECTATIONS - Establishing Peaceful Foundations in Relationships
FAULT RESPONSIBILITY
What are my responsibilities in this relationship?
What are their responsibilities in this relationship?
Was everyone upholding their responsibilities?
Are these responsibilities agreed upon? And if not, why not?
Would their answer to those questions be the same?
If you think that it would, how do you know?
Even if something is 1000% someone else's fault or if it's 1000% your fault, that does. not. matter.
Whose responsibility it is to maintain the integrity and the alignment of the relationship?
Whose responsibility is it to put in the work to realign this relationship when conflict happens?
HINT: The answer to neither of those should be "theirs" or "mine"...
THE ANSWER SHOULD BE OURS.
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If you remember nothing else from this episode, take this:
Collaboration is impossible without communication and comprehension. And everyone involved in a relationship should be responsible for communicating their expectations and putting effort into comprehending the expectations others in any type of relationship.
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